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Post by swarm on Jun 4, 2007 21:57:22 GMT -5
update: she has texted me three times since lunch on saturday. Don't know what to make of it. It means she likes you dummy. Call her out. Be blunt. "So i can't help but notice you have a fiance yet here you are with me...what's up with that..." Get it out of her. |
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Post by Knapik on Jun 4, 2007 22:02:50 GMT -5
Pretty solid advice from Swarm. Be straight up with her. She'll dig that you were assertive and wanted to know what was up.
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Post by swo on Jun 4, 2007 22:03:24 GMT -5
update: she has texted me three times since lunch on saturday. Don't know what to make of it. It means she likes you dummy. Call her out. Be blunt. "So i can't help but notice you have a fiance yet here you are with me...what's up with that..." Get it out of her. I thought it was get it in her !! ;D Swarms right......be "not so subtle". |
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Post by blueraider2 on Jun 4, 2007 22:11:57 GMT -5
It means she likes you dummy. Call her out. Be blunt. "So i can't help but notice you have a fiance yet here you are with me...what's up with that..." Get it out of her. I thought it was get it in her !! ;D Swarms right......be "not so subtle". funny soug  |
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Post by GrumpyBigBee on Jun 20, 2007 7:54:27 GMT -5
some free advise... NEVER DATE ANYONE YOU WORK WITH!!! NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by mikefortune on Jun 20, 2007 15:26:23 GMT -5
Hey Zilla you gotta remember the obvious 1) she is with another man, I always stuck with the policy of never mow another man lawn. 2) Is her fiance the jealous run you down with a pick up truck kind of guy if he finds out. 3) Never crap were you eat, if it goes south you gotta see her everyday and chicks do talk, remember that. 4) like people are saying ask her straight up what she wants, being the last fling does have it's advantages. 5) If you some how do stay together don't tell her about you "gaming" until after she likes you. Swarm and myself both have stories on this.
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Post by GrumpyBigBee on Jun 21, 2007 9:40:46 GMT -5
Hey Zilla you gotta remember the obvious 1) she is with another man, I always stuck with the policy of never mow another man lawn. 2) Is her fiance the jealous run you down with a pick up truck kind of guy if he finds out. 3) Never crap were you eat, if it goes south you gotta see her everyday and chicks do talk, remember that. 4) like people are saying ask her straight up what she wants, being the last fling does have it's advantages. 5) If you some how do stay together don't tell her about you "gaming" until after she likes you. Swarm and myself both have stories on this. I love number 5. That was too funny! Great stuff Mike. |
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Post by tombraider on Jun 21, 2007 12:25:30 GMT -5
some free advise... NEVER DATE ANYONE YOU WORK WITH!!! NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i agree with gbb on this. |
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Post by offspring515 on Jun 21, 2007 14:10:55 GMT -5
If this ends with Goodzilla taking a position at the Stamford branch I'm going to call shenanigans.
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Post by GOODZILLA on Jun 21, 2007 19:16:21 GMT -5
There is a big update on this whole situation, but I'll have to get back to you guys later. Actually it's a big update that I neglected to tell you guys about for about a week and a half now.  |
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Post by dukedave on Jun 21, 2007 19:48:52 GMT -5
There is a big update on this whole situation, but I'll have to get back to you guys later. Actually it's a big update that I neglected to tell you guys about for about a week and a half now. Goodzilla introduced her to the Big Showzilla. |
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Post by GOODZILLA on Jun 21, 2007 21:03:43 GMT -5
If this ends with Goodzilla taking a position at the Stamford branch I'm going to call shenanigans. LOL. I wonder how many people got that joke! |
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Post by tombraider on Jun 21, 2007 22:16:37 GMT -5
i sure didnt.  |
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Post by GOODZILLA on Jun 27, 2007 16:06:20 GMT -5
So here's the lowdown ...
About four days after I took her to lunch, she called off work. Then she called off the next day. I called her and sent her a text message to see if she was ok, but never got a response.
One of her friends told me that her fiancee left her and blamed her for all kinds of shoot going wrong in his personal life and that she was taking it very, very hard.
Since then, I have made myself available to talk to her and gone out for drinks a couple times. I'm not trying very hard at all because this girl is devastated and I don't want to seem like a vulture trying to swoop in for the kill. More than anything I'm just trying to make her smile again because I love that smile.
But ....
This weekend I invited her up to our families cottage for a weekend of sunshine, drinks, bonfires, games, boat rides, and fireworks. She seems so excited to be coming, and now, I'm kinda torn ...
What should I do guys? I do like her, but I don't want to end up just being the rebound guy (which is what would most likely happen). On the other hand she is SMOKIN HOT. The old Goodness would never pass up a chance to get laid, but I don't know what the best play is here.
Lay it on me brothers.
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Post by Knapik on Jun 27, 2007 16:41:09 GMT -5
The thing is just to not get too attached. I know it can be hard sometimes, but if she's smokin and you just want to have some fun try to avoid it. Good luck, bro
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Post by swo on Jun 27, 2007 16:57:16 GMT -5
Just have a good time. If it last....it's all good. If not....you'll still have a smile on your face.
She sounds like she really likes you.
Enjoy the moment.......however long it lasts. ;D
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Post by tombraider on Jun 27, 2007 18:24:04 GMT -5
i agree with soug and knapik.
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Post by gatekeeper on Jun 27, 2007 18:45:31 GMT -5
I know what you mean about not wanting to be the rebound guy.
But better to be him than in the friend zone!
Just go with your gut, man. If she likes you, it'll work, if not, then it won't.
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Post by Aquinas on Jun 27, 2007 18:46:51 GMT -5
It's up to you, promoter!
(sorry, had to say it)
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Post by stephenvegas on Jun 27, 2007 18:55:52 GMT -5
I say go for it. I don't see what you really have to lose.
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